Hello. This is 6 Minute English from BBC Learning English. I’m Neil.
That’s a big smile on your face, Georgina! You seem happy today!
After all, what’s the point in seeing the glass half empty?
Ah, so you’re someone who tries to see the glass half full –
you generally look at things in a positive way.
It may seem strange to be discussing happiness
in the middle of a global pandemic but right now feeling happy is
Well then, it’s lucky that happiness is the subject of this
programme, Georgina. And while many things seem to be out of our
control just now, there are small things we can do to feel better about life…
…to feel less stressed, and maybe even a little happier.
You’re talking like a Dane now, Georgina.
Denmark, and in fact all the Nordic countries,
are often listed as among the happiest places in the world.
You know what would make me happy, Neil?
– asking me a really good quiz question.
OK. Well, did you know that every year the UN publishes its
Global Happiness Survey revealing the happiest countries in the world?
It’s based on factors like income, life expectancy and health.
The Nordic countries often come in the top ten,
but which country was rated the happiest in 2020?
Was it: a) Iceland?, b) Denmark?, or, c) Finland?
Well, Neil, Denmark is famous for bacon, and nothing makes me happier
than a bacon sandwich, so I’ll say b) Denmark.
I like your thinking, Georgina!
We’ll find out the answer later, but you’re certainly right to say that
Denmark is considered one of the happiest countries in the world.
Malene Rydahl, author of the bestselling book, Happy as a Dane,
believes that aspects of Danish culture can help us
improve our chances of happiness.
Here she is explaining what happiness means for her
to BBC World Service programme, The Conversation.
See if you can hear what she thinks:
Well, I think we should be seeking alignment and I think we
should practise gratitude and I think that we should be more conscious
about how we relate to things that happen to us and how much we
compare ourselves to others… I do think that what we need to focus on
is the quality of our relationships.
Did you hear Malene use the word alignment?
She thinks there should be harmony between my true sense of
who I am, what I think and how I relate to others.
We should be in alignment – or in the correct relation, to those things.
Malene also thinks happiness comes from gratitude –
feeling grateful and expressing thanks to other people.
She recommends finding three things, no matter how small,
Like… getting a good night’s sleep, drinking a hot coffee…
and having this chat with you, Georgina.
Thanks, Neil, that’s put a smile on my face!
It may sound strange but doing this every day can really
Malene also warns against seeking happiness in external things,
as you can hear in this chat with BBC World Service’s, The Conversation:
If you seek happiness and you mistake it for pleasure,
you will be running around like a little hamster in a wheel
because it’s never enough and because you will be very quickly
the victim of the hedonic treadmill… and the hedonic treadmill is…
you know, you want something, you think if you’re more beautiful, if you
get more power, if you get more money and fame and then you’ll
finally be happy… and then you get it and you get a small satisfaction.
According to Malene, chasing external pleasures like money and fame
will leave you feeling like a hamster on a wheel –
like someone who’s always busy but never accomplishes anything
useful or finishes what they start.
She also says it’s easy to become a victim of the hedonic treadmill.
This is the idea that humans adapt to whatever level of happiness
they achieve. As we make more money, meet the perfect boyfriend
or whatever we desire, our expectations also increase,
so we never find the happiness we hoped we would!
‘Money can’t buy happiness’, as my grandma used to say.
Right. In fact, it’s probably the quality of our relationships,
not external objects, that gives satisfaction –
the pleasure we feel when we achieve something we wanted to.
Lots of useful tips there, Georgina, for feeling as happy as a Dane.
A Dane, you say, Neil? So I got the correct answer?
In my quiz question I asked Georgina which Nordic country was rated
happiest in the UN’s 2020 global survey.
But in fact, Georgina, it was… c) Finland.
I guess their bacon sandwiches are even better!
OK, let’s recap the vocabulary and start seeing the glass half full –
looking at things in a positive way.
Happiness might be all about alignment –
being in the correct relation to things.
Or gratitude – being grateful and giving thanks.
Feeling like a hamster on a wheel means you’re always busy doing
things but without getting satisfaction -
the pleasant feeling of achieving something you really wanted to.
Finally, the reason happiness often escapes us may involve the hedonic
treadmill - the human tendency to return to the same level of
happiness after something very good or very bad has happened.
That’s all for this programme.
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